As I walk my dog I always notice new things and here in a small bunch of beautiful white birch is an old forgotten friend, left behind to watch the world from it’s lonely spot above. It’s sun faded and ripped and stuck real good, but it’s not forgotten now.
I’m so torn up inside, I have been trying not to cry consistently, part of me says fine if that’s the way he wants it then let it be.
The other part says no, u don’t get to call me mom just when u want to, either I am or I am not.
I haven’t talked to him, he may have said not to tell me anything
Or, she’s doing it because she is enjoying the attention and she is and has only seen the good side.
I’m the one that got nasty messages from angry people who’s car he stole.
I’m torn, what do I do???
(For full story see previous post, y am I so bothered?)
quick summary, 8 years ago I found my ex step son on Facebook, invited him to meet his brother and then into our home and back to my heart. He called me mom, his kids call me Grammie, I knew how horribly he had been raised and how hard his life had been for him. Doing what I could for him and trying to help him was really hard, his narcissistic ways made it impossible to get him to see things different. He’s been in and out of trouble, and was arrested again last Friday for stealing cars. The part that is bothering me is the woman who he had been staying with for the past idk, 6 months is calling him her son. She has known him since birth, but I don’t know how much of his life she has been in, she has been the one in contact with the law since he was living with her and they all think she is mom, I told her I was upset finding out about him almost 24 hours after and not by her,that I felt pushed to the sidelines and that it bothered me she was calling him son, but it didn’t matter even if she said sorry and said it wasn’t like that but then still kept me in the dark about what she knew and then on Facebook she is posting how much she misses him and it’s all her son…..
this is not supposed to be about me, I have no legal right to call him son, so why is it bothering me so much that she is?
My son is 15 and has his first real girlfriend, I am terrified!! He is extremely sensitive and when something happens it will be like a wall hitting him. I could hope they r a rarity and stay together forever but, one in a million there! It is the one month anniversary and he wanted to get her something, he got all these and brought them home and asked me to put the flowers into a bouquet for him , I had a vase I could use so I came up with this. I am bringing it to his school for him at lunch time but the school said it has to stay in the office till she leaves school. He will have to bring her to see it at the office. It’s cute and sweet and I’m proud of him!! 🤗🤗