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6 thoughts on “Things to make you go hmmmm….”
Struggling with 1 or 2. What if your once best friend became the toxic person? It is hard to avoid and hard to stay
I can relate, it is hard to argue between your head and your heart. You just need to figure out how much of an effect they are having on your life. Are they sucking you down?
As they were my best friends since school so they have a lot of effect. I am a hard working girl. I studied hard, working word so that I can earn good and live a life. Thats why I left home and came to Canada. I never wanted to depend on my fathers money. But my friends are already very wealthy from family businesses. Some of they work, some of them don’t. That is not a problem. I feel frustrated when they look and advice about my life from their own glasses. Like, to follow the latest fashion, spends tons of money on make up and branded stuffs, they don’t understand why I need to work 5 days a week and advice me that having a baby has nothing to do with household income and all that. It is not always possible to make them understand that for some family budget is always a concern and it can change every year. Some of them are good friends, but they just don’t understand my way of life.
They prob never will but making new friends can help fill that part. Like me!!! I raised two kids on my own. I worked till I could not then I had to make magic. Lol.
Thanks a lot. I have a lot of friends on every stage of my life. I have tons of awesome friends from from my university and after coming to Canada I have also made some nice friends, with whom I hang out almost every week. But as they are my school friend, they always call me if they don’t hear anything from me for few days. I don’t want to ignore them, nor I want to be rude. I think only solution would be to care less.
Tracey in Maine 
Struggling with 1 or 2. What if your once best friend became the toxic person? It is hard to avoid and hard to stay
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I can relate, it is hard to argue between your head and your heart. You just need to figure out how much of an effect they are having on your life. Are they sucking you down?
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As they were my best friends since school so they have a lot of effect. I am a hard working girl. I studied hard, working word so that I can earn good and live a life. Thats why I left home and came to Canada. I never wanted to depend on my fathers money. But my friends are already very wealthy from family businesses. Some of they work, some of them don’t. That is not a problem. I feel frustrated when they look and advice about my life from their own glasses. Like, to follow the latest fashion, spends tons of money on make up and branded stuffs, they don’t understand why I need to work 5 days a week and advice me that having a baby has nothing to do with household income and all that. It is not always possible to make them understand that for some family budget is always a concern and it can change every year. Some of them are good friends, but they just don’t understand my way of life.
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They prob never will but making new friends can help fill that part. Like me!!! I raised two kids on my own. I worked till I could not then I had to make magic. Lol.
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Thanks a lot. I have a lot of friends on every stage of my life. I have tons of awesome friends from from my university and after coming to Canada I have also made some nice friends, with whom I hang out almost every week. But as they are my school friend, they always call me if they don’t hear anything from me for few days. I don’t want to ignore them, nor I want to be rude. I think only solution would be to care less.
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I agree. That’s sounds like it would be, just try to remember, they can not understand.
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