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It all comes back….

Posted on by queentracey1

The way we raise our kids always comes back to us. 

I started off wrong with my boys but saw that and corrected it early enough for them to be mentally and emotionally stable when it was time, example. My son jacob is currently working as a CNA and is not stopping there, he wants to be a dr. A mother like me could not be more  proud. He grew up in rentals his whole life and was broke always but that didn’t stop him and I hope it never stops any other kid!

Now if you completely smother them, manipulate them into believing what you want them to about people especially,  it will come back. Point blank….

A mother tells her new husbands mother, u will never see him or any children we have….

Tell the kids awful lies and make up stories to try to make them always see things your way and never ever in dads way, try to keep them always under your thumb….

What do you really think will happen when they grow up??? Either, one, dad smarten ups and leaves and as time goes they meet all these people they were never allowed to meet and one day actually think, hhhmmmmmm.

Or , they grow up and marry a controlling , abusive woman just like mom and you never see them or your grandchildren again…..

Either way, you are digging a bigger hole. 

And somewere inside , she knows. Her parents have told her, people have left, she drinks herself a box of wine every night…. she knows…

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Brain drain!!!

Posted on by queentracey1

There are so many things going through my head at all times lately and then he says, Hunny, what color do you want to do the house???? Wwwwhhhhaaaaattttttttttttttttt??????????????? Aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh. Now I need to think about the outside? Lol oh if I wasn’t so undeniably happy I would be going crazy!!

I know I want the kitchen royal blue, grey and white. I was going to do the floor in the grey weathered wood floor but I’m worried about the matching of the brown wood to the grey wood. My living room and dining room we are doing wood floors. Brown, the usual. So much needs to be done and I’m trying to figure it out all the time it’s all I can think about.

I want to keep the wood shakers I think he called them, his ex house is grey so that’s out, his favorite color is a sage green but I am not sure how that would look. I know royal blue maybe a bit much!!! Lol. 

Any color scheme ideas???????