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Trauma to his children


My husband has an ex who is an alcoholic, has been in and out of the hospital because of it and was told not to drink at all. Of course she started again. We got a call from her family about it , she called her boyfriend drunk and driving, he called them and they called us. After talking to them that’s when his 12 year old said mom was drinking again. He told what he knew and we decided we could not let him go back there. What if they found her dead? Not to mention the drinking and driving!! The trauma would be unreal! He also has a 15 year old who is I really believe autistic, lots of other people have said the same but when it is mentioned to his mother she freaks out and says no he’s not doing that testing and usually stops going to that dr. The 15 year old is all about momma and will not leave her side at all, hates dad and I and just repeats everything momma says. I almost think he would kill himself if he found her dead. She uses his ADHD as a crutch and blames the other son, who is also ADHD for everything so he will end up resenting his brother. We talk about all this with him , he is in all the gifted and talented at school and really is perceptive.

So mom has so far tried, guilt, bribery, “the you don’t love me “, thing , has tried to get him out of our house and into her truck and he just keeps telling her he will come home when she gets help.

She won’t, she denies it all and has convinced herself all she believes is true and we have lied about everything turning her child against her.

His grandmother called him and as usual puts it all on him and his brother. Told him to go home and said to just call if something happens!!! Oh ok so let the kids deal with her drinking, let the kids be the ones to find her dead , what is wrong with these people!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!

Seriously!!! I am just beside myself, as it is I can only try to save one from the trauma and abuse , although the grandmother says they should deal with this together so they can support each other. ? I don’t even know if any of this will hold up in court for temp custody. I don’t know what to do. She won’t admit she has a problem, the only proof we have is from the 12 year old testimony and I just don’t know what to do to help the 15 year old!!!!

Anyone have any advice??????????

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50 Hobbies You Can Master In Two Weeks From The Comfort Of Your Own Home


1. Calligraphy. Practicing every day for a fortnight would improve penmanship. 2. What about astronomy? Get a few books and grab your binoculars and …

50 Hobbies You Can Master In Two Weeks From The Comfort Of Your Own Home
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Help the kids with postcards!!


My beautiful little niece lives in Avon Connecticut and her class is doing a project to see if they can collect postcards from around the world!! Anyone willing to send a postcard from home would be majorly appreciated and shared on my page. Used ones can just be written on or new is good as well. Apparently this has been a month going and they have only a few from other states so I’m calling for help!!!

Send the to Tracey Bernier

165 River rd Benton Maine 04901

And I will forward them to my niece!!!

One small thing will help a child and classmates accomplish a great project!!!!

Thank you 🙏

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50 Eye Roll-Worthy Jokes That Are So Stupid They’re Actually Hilarious


50 Eye Roll-Worthy Jokes That Are So Stupid They’re Actually Hilarious

50 Eye Roll-Worthy Jokes That Are So Stupid They’re Actually Hilarious 
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Apple air pods with wireless case


My 17 years old asked for these things for Christmas,  the first thing I had to do was figure out what the heck they were!

https://amzn.to/35kLys5

I started to search a couple days into December for a black Friday or cyber Monday sale, now from what I saw these things were going for 180. regular-priced, so when I found them on sale for 99.99 I thought I had hit the best sale ever! I had already had problems with 2 packages from china not arriving so I checked to see if they were from the USA and it said Kentucky for an address, sweet! I ordered them and then got the accessories for him, silicone sleeve and of course the charging pad. It was close to Christmas when I was doing an Inventory I realized they had not come in. I sent emails to both the customer service and the address on my Paypal account, nothing, CRAP! 
The next thing I did was order some on eBay, everything said they would still arrive in time so, good enough. $119.99 was still a good price. Two days later I receive a message from eBay saying they had canceled all orders from this account and my order would not arrive but I would get my money back in 5-7 days! WAIT! WHAT!!
Now my husband is getting irritated, we are out 219. plus tax, I am just dumbfounded. What was going on with this stuff, packages not arriving, money was stolen, I had never had such bad luck in one year before! He took over and got on old reliable Amazon, paid full 169.99 but they would still be here for Christmas. Good enough.
On Christmas morning my older son arrives and was saying he” spoiled the family” this year, telling me how he got a pair of air pods for his brother….

Being the kid he is, he gave one pair to his girlfriend for Christmas!!

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Spoiled Kid? Discover precisely how to unspoil a child (beginning today!).


Spoiled Kid? Discover precisely how to unspoil a child (beginning today!).

Spoiled Kid? Discover precisely how to unspoil a child (beginning today!).


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2 years and a huge win


I have talked about my husband, his kids and ex wife before. Horrible human being, major parental alienation, narcissistic alcoholic, daddy money spoiled like crazy, that about sums that up, now that you are caught up,

I started helping my husband stand up to her when we met, when we went to court to ask for more time with them it was decided he should do therapy with them to see about fixing his relationship with them. His younger son actually is great, no fixing needed but his older boy hates him cause of mom. She refused to allow him in with the therapist alone, he is 15. Every one step forward and mom brought him two steps back.

With child support changes they were in and out of court and finally my husband put his foot down and said I have asked for two years and I want it done. We had to go to trial because she refused everything. He told the judge, we have shared custody but she makes all the rules, I see my son 54 out of 365 days a year!

We got everything we asked for!! We won! We had to wait a week for it to come by mail but we WON!! She had a lawyer even , we did not. We didn’t get to use all the parental alienation proof we had but we still won.

Christmas came early!!!

Bless all the children

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The majority of 11-year-olds #own smartphones. And experts are worried | Nancy Jo Sales


The majority of 11-year-olds #own smartphones. And experts are worried | Nancy Jo Sales

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