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Finding Me


I have the perfect life, wonderful husband, beautiful house, kids are great, but I feel unsatisfied, slightly empty, unfulfilled.

I need to find me. I wasted years, decades of my life sitting or aimlessly wondering through the motions, I did not leave my house for weeks sometimes, I did not live at all, I can barely say I was surviving.

I have no idea we’re to start or what to do. I have always felt empty inside. I never knew love till two years ago, real love, unconditional.

I want to make goals for 2019. I want to find more, but how? How to start. ….

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The One Thing This World Needs More Of


Unknown's avatarWise & Shine

In our culture we are often brought up with this lofty idea of being in peace with everyone. At it’s best we should avoid hate at all costs and resolve all our conflicts and toxic relationships with people in order to live a harmonious life.

And because most people have the fundamental need to feel loved and accepted, they tend to often proritize the needs of others more over their own needs. It’s the typical image of the ‘nice guy’ who ranks so high in the personality trait of agreeableness, that he would probably wipe your ass if you asked him to.

Okay, all jokes aside. I see it every goddamn day. People doing things for other’s they don’t actually care about. They do it just to feel a little better about themselves. Or should I say – to feel a little less worse about themselves. 😉

They are afraid…

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2 Things You Should Never Ignore (About Mental Health)


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On the second day of blogmas let’s help one another and ourselves.

“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.”
― Charles Dickens

Your need for help

Admit that you need help, acceptance is the first step towards getting better. You can only heal if you realise what is happening to you and how to get better.

It is okay to look for help, you cannot do everything on your own. You don’t have to be on your own the entire time, you can lean on others for help. There is no shame in asking for help. Don’t forget what Dumbledore said,

“Help will always be given at Hogwarts to those who ask for it.”
Albus Dumbledore

Getting help is vital for your growth if you want to evolve, accept all the help that you can get.

Most importantly, self love is the…

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12 Step Guide To A Mental Health Reboot


Specscladeyes's avatarSpecscladeyes

Day-11-Blogmas-2018-specscladeyesOn the twelfth day of blogmas, I am sharing a 12-step guide to have a perfect mental health reboot day. This is something which works for me, you don’t have to follow all the steps. Feel free to skip a few, change some or add new steps, as it is your day and the guide should be fit to cater to you. By the time you figure out your perfect guide, follow this method.

Step 1

Open the curtains the moment you wake up, don’t leave it for later because you will forget it. Also, sunlight wakes up your body clock faster than anything. You might not even need caffeine to feel awake.

Step 2

Say affirmations to your mirror, however, don’t just say them. Believe in what you are saying, force your brain to agree to the affirmations. There are a lot of affirmations on the internet, I wrote…

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Bark Edge Board Hanging Shelves


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Bark Edge Board Haning Shelves by Dana Tatar

I’ve staked a claim on the corner of my family room as a sort of makeshift office for myself. I created an area that has all the essential supplies necessary to help run a household. While I was able to get things done in this space, I never really wanted to spend more time than necessary at my desk…until now. I injected a big dose of personality into my corner of the room with some handmade shelves and pieces of art that make me happy. I’ve noticed that I’m not the only one drawn to this new space. The entire family is spending more time in the room thanks so this fun DIY project.

Bark Edge Board Hanging Shelf Supplies by Dana TatarSupplies:
1 – Walnut Hollow 5-inch Bark Edge Board
2 – Walnut Hollow 18-inch Bark Edge Boards
4 – #10 Screw Hooks
1/4-inch Manila Rope
Electric Drill

Bark Edge Board Hanging Shelf Holes by Dana TatarStep 1: Use an electric drill to drill two…

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Rustic Bark Edge Shadow Box Shelves


Kelli @ CraftShackChronicles's avatarwalnuthollowcrafts

I love using shadow boxes as shelves for little knick-knacks around my house, but sometimes I wish they had a few extra compartments! I’ve found the perfect solution to make custom shadow box shelves with the amazing Walnut Hollow Bark Edge Shadow Boxes and Bark Edge Boards! The beautiful bark edge basswood boards and shadow boxes match up so perfectly, it’s like they were meant to be together.  And it’s really so simple to customize them to fit any configuration.

Bark Edge Shadow Box Shelves

Here’s what you’ll need to make your Bark Edge Shadow Box Shelves:

Bark Edge Shadow Box Shelf Supplies

First, you’ll need to decide how many shelves or compartments you want to add to your Bark Edge Shadow Box.  For my small Shadow box I just wanted to add one shelf…

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