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My kitchen floor


This is what I decided on my kitchen floor, now as you know, we bought a house. The closing is coming up now and we need to do floors b 4 we move in. The kitchen is actually the one place I do not need a floor, lol, but we are going to try to reduce the hardwood already in the dining room and lay some in the living room. The kitchen is the major huge remodel so it’s were my brain mostly is. 

Just some quick before pics so u remember the space. The dining room is hardwood under all that old carpet glue and stuff. The kitchen has this down now which will due till we are ready to remodel the whole place but I want to make sure the floor going from the brown wood dining room to the grey wood kitchen will look ok.

Then being the awesome man he is, he brought me home a bunch of tile samples and with that added to stuff I have I decided to do my own mosaic backsplash. 

I have some plain blue broken glass from a casserole dish plus whites, Grey’s and blue tiles and I’m going to just keep collecting!!! I’m so excited. I’m thinking the top cabinets will be white distressed and the bottom a distressed blue. The counter itself we haven’t decided on yet. We are taking wood pieces, like paint sticks, and putting them on the doors for a better look, taking out that ugly paneling on top and putting up a bigger molding to that and some for under the cabinets get the high end look. I may make that a shelf if possible and put some of my blue glass there. 

So much to do, we have, a dining room chandelier we are going to make our own version of, we are leaving the wood in the dining room and painting on the top , the living room will be the sage green like David likes and then I want the dining room to the it all together but I just haven’t decided on the color yet. 

So, downstairs of my house with all the beautiful wood will be colbolt blue, sage green, grey and white. I think…..

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Quicken loans not so good


You see the commercial for them, they imply they can get you to the buying process of a home quick. I guess to that part it’s ok but, after they say you qualify and make a bid, the owners except the bid, then it’s so much b.s. that you have to deal with!! Buying a house, a home is stressful. Waiting is stressful. You need to have inspections, well yes, of course you want to do that. You have a list of things, papers to fill out and copy and information they need that comes up on your account. Once that’s all done it’s like they stop paying attention. They do not talk to each other and they don’t read every note in your file until after they have sent you email contradicting each other. 

Inspector, comes, says you need to paint. It’s 12 degrees out. We can put the money in escrow to do it later. That goes through three different people that David has to keep explaining it to. They are not in maine obviously. They finally get past that. They say it all looks good, once we know we have all the paperwork done then we can close in ten days or so after that. Great! Nope. 

Then they decide they want a handrail on the basement stairs, ok. Then they say , now we need another inspection for the handrail. The realtor took pictures and sent them but nope, not good enough. So goodbye ten days. Now we have to wait for someone to go to the house, look at the rail, shake it a few times and say, ok. Then they need to do the paperwork and send that in. Are you kidding me???

I understand we are taking out a mortgage and the bank wants to make sure it’s worth the investment, ok, I understand if they wanted a couple things done, ok, but, get your carp straight! It’s like a ping ball game going back and forth and back and forth!!! Like this isn’t a huge enough deal but to add a completely unorganized company running the show constantly jerking you back and forth!!!!, it’s not my recommendation to use Quicken Loans!!!

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Hopeless!!


That’s it I give up. I am going to just come out and confess that I am hopelessly in love with David! This man is like no other! He thinks of me first no matter what. He worries he will disappoint me, he makes something he’s doing harder for him so it’s easier for me. I have never really known anything like this. My life has been filled with men who are in one way or another abusive and to find one who is , whole, it’s amazing!! I find myself being embarrassed by his compliments and I have yet to become used to him opening doors and being so protective of me on the ice and snow. I know I lived a lot of my life sorting out myself by understanding my past but I have decided that I’m tired of looking behind me. I have discovered enough to feel as if I am capable of loving myself and others as I was meant to. I may not have learned it all but I think it’s enough. I don’t want to look behind me anymore. I have decided it’s time to look ahead at my future and how I want it to be. I also have decided that he is the one I want to do it with. The next two months will be packing and moving and unpacking as the process of closing the deal for the house starts and my new life will begin.

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I do believe


Life is either 

A daring

Adventure 

Or nothing

At all……

               Helen Keller

I have put my faith, life, house, everything into a new state and am slowly changing more everyday. Now, with my health, and many other things of course in mind I have decided to live more by this motto. So, on October 14 2017, I am getting married to who I truly believe to be my soul mate. My blog may become more about wedding planing and moving but it won’t get boring for sure!!!

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2017


I decided I was going to change my life in 2017. The first thing I did was take a risk, leave my safe zone and go out on new years eve on a date and because of that I have a wonderful man in my life. 

I have come part way to getting my house gutted out.

I am going to keep up with my life hacks self help with at least one article a day. 

As I have learned more about myself I have tried to learn how to meditate, just haven’t got that down yet. 

so for now these are my goals for the start of 2017.