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How to Overcome the Discard Stage of the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle
How to Overcome the Discard Stage of the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle
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Sabotage
Advice?
I’m so torn up inside, I have been trying not to cry consistently, part of me says fine if that’s the way he wants it then let it be.
The other part says no, u don’t get to call me mom just when u want to, either I am or I am not.
I haven’t talked to him, he may have said not to tell me anything
Or, she’s doing it because she is enjoying the attention and she is and has only seen the good side.
I’m the one that got nasty messages from angry people who’s car he stole.
I’m torn, what do I do???
(For full story see previous post, y am I so bothered?)
Why is this bothering me so much??
quick summary, 8 years ago I found my ex step son on Facebook, invited him to meet his brother and then into our home and back to my heart. He called me mom, his kids call me Grammie, I knew how horribly he had been raised and how hard his life had been for him. Doing what I could for him and trying to help him was really hard, his narcissistic ways made it impossible to get him to see things different. He’s been in and out of trouble, and was arrested again last Friday for stealing cars. The part that is bothering me is the woman who he had been staying with for the past idk, 6 months is calling him her son. She has known him since birth, but I don’t know how much of his life she has been in, she has been the one in contact with the law since he was living with her and they all think she is mom, I told her I was upset finding out about him almost 24 hours after and not by her,that I felt pushed to the sidelines and that it bothered me she was calling him son, but it didn’t matter even if she said sorry and said it wasn’t like that but then still kept me in the dark about what she knew and then on Facebook she is posting how much she misses him and it’s all her son…..
this is not supposed to be about me, I have no legal right to call him son, so why is it bothering me so much that she is?
How to Become the Best Photographer in Easy Steps- Simpliv
How to Become the Best Photographer in Easy Steps- Simpliv
https://simpliv.wordpress.com/2018/03/20/how-to-become-the-best-photographer-in-easy-steps-simpliv/
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Use arts therapy course for self-healing and become more positive!
Use arts therapy course for self-healing and become more positive!
https://simpliv.wordpress.com/2018/04/23/use-arts-therapy-course-for-self-healing-and-become-more-positive/
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Forget forgetfulness! Train your brain to do wonderful things with its memory power. At just $10!
Forget forgetfulness! Train your brain to do wonderful things with its memory power. At just $10!
https://simpliv.wordpress.com/2018/04/24/forget-forgetfulness-train-your-brain-to-do-wonderful-things-with-its-memory-power-at-just-10/
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Drinking baking soda could be an inexpensive, safe way to combat autoimmune disease: study
Drinking baking soda could be an inexpensive, safe way to combat autoimmune disease: study
https://zedie.wordpress.com/2018/04/25/drinking-baking-soda-could-be-an-inexpensive-safe-way-to-combat-autoimmune-disease-study/
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My train conductor
I am one proud wife as my husband passed all the testing and goes off to start his training at Pan Am Railways today! His lifelong love of trains and knowledge of them payed off for him and he is now a train conductor!! He is already talking about moving up to engineer and being top of the class made his superiors pushing him to do so. Weeks of him away from home have been rough but seeing how happy he is makes it worth doing over and over. His ex wife had denied him this dream along with other multiple abusive things that killed his confidence and I am proud to have helped him restore all that. I feel like our past of both being abused helps us to appreciate each other more for just being ourselves. It was a long road for us both but well worth it to find this strong and deep of a mental and emotional bond with someone. I am very proud of him !!!!
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