To fully open each other and enjoy a lifetime of love, we must learn the most important skill of all, forgiveness. Forgiving others for their …
THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS
THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS
Tag: Psychology
Daily Dose for the Soul
Your dominant thoughts always match your manifestations, and so, once you understand the absolute correlations between your thoughts, how you feel, …
Daily Dose for the Soul
There’s Nothing to It But to Do It!
Over the last few days I’ve given you a lot of information about how you can start to transform your life for the better. There’s just one thing left…
There’s Nothing to It But to Do It!
Self-efficacy
Do you ever wander what it takes to be the best in your performance? Is mental toughness enough or do you need extra understanding of processes to …
Self-efficacy
Self-efficacy
Do you ever wander what it takes to be the best in your performance? Is mental toughness enough or do you need extra understanding of processes to …
Self-efficacy
How to Handle Fear by Using the Law of Attraction
How to Handle Fear by Using the Law of Attraction
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How to spot a liar | Pamela Meyer
On any given day we’re lied to from 10 to 200 times, and the clues to detect those lie can be subtle and counter-intuitive. Pamela Meyer, author of …
How to spot a liar | Pamela Meyer
1 – Healing the Self for Healthy Relationships
All of us should work to recover the inner self. The inner self is the entity within us all that goes through many changes that triggers us stress. …
1 – Healing the Self for Healthy Relationships
Stop Being Afraid
I’m convinced that fear is one of the worst things in life. Think about all of the negative ways that fear affects your life. Think about all of the …
Stop Being Afraid
30 Things You’ll Only Understand If You Had A Toxic Childhood
1. Distrust of others, as assumption that you are unloveable and will always be left behind. 2. More likely to submit to peer pressure or abusive …
30 Things You’ll Only Understand If You Had A Toxic Childhood
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
Almost all of us have this one common destructive daily habit, that is, to compare ourselves to others. We compare houses, jobs, phones, cars, …
How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others
Managing Emotions in Stressful Times
We often resort to less effective and sustainable tactics to manage emotional experiences. These may include blocking out negative emotions with …
Managing Emotions in Stressful Times
Are You or Someone You Know Raising a Narcissist?
Written by Dr. Eric Perry Image Credit: Pixabay There is a well-known statistic that states that up to 6 percent of the US population suffers from …
Are You or Someone You Know Raising a Narcissist?
Healing from empathic distress
Neuroscientists have discovered specialized cells in the brain, called mirror neurons, that spontaneously create brain-to-brain links between people.…
Healing from empathic distress
Trauma to his children
My husband has an ex who is an alcoholic, has been in and out of the hospital because of it and was told not to drink at all. Of course she started again. We got a call from her family about it , she called her boyfriend drunk and driving, he called them and they called us. After talking to them that’s when his 12 year old said mom was drinking again. He told what he knew and we decided we could not let him go back there. What if they found her dead? Not to mention the drinking and driving!! The trauma would be unreal! He also has a 15 year old who is I really believe autistic, lots of other people have said the same but when it is mentioned to his mother she freaks out and says no he’s not doing that testing and usually stops going to that dr. The 15 year old is all about momma and will not leave her side at all, hates dad and I and just repeats everything momma says. I almost think he would kill himself if he found her dead. She uses his ADHD as a crutch and blames the other son, who is also ADHD for everything so he will end up resenting his brother. We talk about all this with him , he is in all the gifted and talented at school and really is perceptive.
So mom has so far tried, guilt, bribery, “the you don’t love me “, thing , has tried to get him out of our house and into her truck and he just keeps telling her he will come home when she gets help.
She won’t, she denies it all and has convinced herself all she believes is true and we have lied about everything turning her child against her.
His grandmother called him and as usual puts it all on him and his brother. Told him to go home and said to just call if something happens!!! Oh ok so let the kids deal with her drinking, let the kids be the ones to find her dead , what is wrong with these people!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!
Seriously!!! I am just beside myself, as it is I can only try to save one from the trauma and abuse , although the grandmother says they should deal with this together so they can support each other. ? I don’t even know if any of this will hold up in court for temp custody. I don’t know what to do. She won’t admit she has a problem, the only proof we have is from the 12 year old testimony and I just don’t know what to do to help the 15 year old!!!!
Anyone have any advice??????????
Tracey in Maine 