5 ways to deal with a narcissist once and for all
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6 brutally honest reasons why your intentions don’t matter, but your actions do
6 brutally honest reasons why your intentions don’t matter, but your actions do
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How to Overcome the Discard Stage of the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle
How to Overcome the Discard Stage of the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle
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Sabotage
Advice?
I’m so torn up inside, I have been trying not to cry consistently, part of me says fine if that’s the way he wants it then let it be.
The other part says no, u don’t get to call me mom just when u want to, either I am or I am not.
I haven’t talked to him, he may have said not to tell me anything
Or, she’s doing it because she is enjoying the attention and she is and has only seen the good side.
I’m the one that got nasty messages from angry people who’s car he stole.
I’m torn, what do I do???
(For full story see previous post, y am I so bothered?)
Why is this bothering me so much??
quick summary, 8 years ago I found my ex step son on Facebook, invited him to meet his brother and then into our home and back to my heart. He called me mom, his kids call me Grammie, I knew how horribly he had been raised and how hard his life had been for him. Doing what I could for him and trying to help him was really hard, his narcissistic ways made it impossible to get him to see things different. He’s been in and out of trouble, and was arrested again last Friday for stealing cars. The part that is bothering me is the woman who he had been staying with for the past idk, 6 months is calling him her son. She has known him since birth, but I don’t know how much of his life she has been in, she has been the one in contact with the law since he was living with her and they all think she is mom, I told her I was upset finding out about him almost 24 hours after and not by her,that I felt pushed to the sidelines and that it bothered me she was calling him son, but it didn’t matter even if she said sorry and said it wasn’t like that but then still kept me in the dark about what she knew and then on Facebook she is posting how much she misses him and it’s all her son…..
this is not supposed to be about me, I have no legal right to call him son, so why is it bothering me so much that she is?
Use arts therapy course for self-healing and become more positive!
Use arts therapy course for self-healing and become more positive!
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Staying Positive
10 Most Common Parental Misconceptions
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Sometimes it seems like everyone we know suffers from some sort of anxiety. Our brains are literally hardwired to worry about things, but in this digital and modern age, it can be hard for our brains to pick and choose the things it needs to focus on. Obviously, you don’t have to worry about being […]
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Anxiety is more of a curse than anything else. You can’t cure it with the perfect medicine, and it doesn’t go away passively like a cold. Anxiety demands your attention, while making you more fearful of giving it your attention the closer you look at it. But deep down, defeating anxiety consists of taking part […]
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Love Dr Perry!!!
By Dr. Perry, PhD “Logic will get you from A to B, imagination will take you everywhere.” ~Albert Einstein In my professional life, I recommend to my patients that they practice a bit of time travel. I ask them to imagine traveling into the future and to make positive visualizations about the time to come. […]
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