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I hate my grandbabies mother


Hate is a very strong word that I do not use lightly but dealing with her for the past 5 years has truly been horrifying. To say she is a narcissistic person would be putting it lightly. Short version, she is a horrible mother, and I could go on and on about all the things we have had to go through with her. My step son is spineless and does not stand up to her at all even though she has got married, every guy she has been with is the new daddy and at this point he is not even aloud around them, to even talk to them or anything. He just takes it. He will loose them.

She hates how much they love me , she is so mentally and emotionally abusive to them and uses them over everyone to get what she wants. They were here with us Friday to Sunday in which time they went outside to play and my grandson playing with his skateboard, crashed. He was scared more than anything and calmed down very quickly with a skinned knee, scratch on his neck going to his shoulder and a fat lip. She flipped out and in the argument sent a picture of his knee and it was way worse than it had been here. No surprise, her mom had them but she didn’t say anything so it all went on me. I have bent over backwards for her, she robbed me of almost 700$ plus the money I gave to them for everything , supporting them for months at a time, it just goes on but once again it is I will never see them again, loose her number, on and on and on. I get so stressed and upset it usually makes me sick. I know I could not handle raising them on my own but have thought of taking them for years. Her husband is an actual good guy to them so it has helped them out a lot having him around but now I am stuck once again with decisions, wait till she needs something and calls, try to lie and smooth my way back in or just spend tons of money going for grandparents rights.

The worst thing about it all is what she is doing to them .

And, David’s ex wife is just as bad but in different ways. One is bad enough, but two!!!

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“Others have seen what is and asked why. I have seen what could be and asked why not. ” ~ Pablo Picasso…


“Others have seen what is and asked why. I have seen what could be and asked why not. ” ~ Pablo Picasso…

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Movie, 6 Days


When armed gunmen seize the Iranian Embassy in 1980 , a tense 6 day standoff ensues while elite British soldiers prepare for a dangerous raid to save the many hostages inside.

This true story movie came out in 2017 and stars Mark Strong, Abbie Cornish, and Jamie Bell.

The movie was very good playing out the most important parts of those 6 days and tells how to this day some of the same tactics are still used in similar situations. While these terrorist are people, human beings, with the best of intentions and honorable causes , they chose the wrong way to get the worlds attention. I try to see from their side and although could never actually understand what they go through living in Iran , can understand how they may feel the need for the rest of the world to know their cause.

Power, control, money,

Freedom

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Advice?


I’m so torn up inside, I have been trying not to cry consistently, part of me says fine if that’s the way he wants it then let it be.

The other part says no, u don’t get to call me mom just when u want to, either I am or I am not.

I haven’t talked to him, he may have said not to tell me anything

Or, she’s doing it because she is enjoying the attention and she is and has only seen the good side.

I’m the one that got nasty messages from angry people who’s car he stole.

I’m torn, what do I do???

(For full story see previous post, y am I so bothered?)

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How to Become the Best Photographer in Easy Steps- Simpliv


How to Become the Best Photographer in Easy Steps- Simpliv

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Use arts therapy course for self-healing and become more positive!


Use arts therapy course for self-healing and become more positive!

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