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It does exist


True Love, Perfect connection, Knowing he or she is the One! They do exist.

After 3 years together I am still in the honeymoon phase!! I don’t see it ever ending, we love to be together- have gone a week of every minute together and it was great! We value each other’s opinion and strengths as much as faults. He is strong where I am weak. We do not fight, and barely argue. We both have been abused and treated badly in our past so we appreciate everything about each other. We tell each other everything, he is my other half.

People say marriage is work and maybe someday it will be but for now, living him is the easiest thing I have ever done.

I believe it can exist for everyone.

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Kitten!


This is Cloe. We just couldn’t let her stay were she lived. They had ten cats and one litter of 8 kittens. Small, malnourished and living in filth. As we helped a PALS shelter gather them this little girl won my heart so after some time at the shelter being fixed and brought out of danger I brought her home. 2 hours and she is now sleeping in the window content as can be. Lol my pup was over excited and she never met a dog before but I am hoping they will become friends. Selina the 4 year old we brought home from the shelter months ago is not very happy about it but I am also hoping that will change.

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The Evil lives


My husband exwife has been a nightmare since day one, it’s the ” he went and found his soul mate and got happy” thing. The closet drunk went and drank her liver to death, we thought she was going to die. Then the family stopped talking to us, stressing about adding two more kids to the house full time, allll the things that come with that very horrific thought, they have a cat, one of them hates us both, etc, etc,

To update, she lives. She came home from the hospital and if she can stay sober for two years then they will give her a transplant. WOW!

She has caused serious mental and emotional issues to those two boys, so part of me just thinks die already!

Then you have the boys, never taught respect, to clean up after themselves, empathy is non existent, they have been spoiled beyond imagination and still treated as much as babies as possible. The older one treated differently because he is “special” so the younger one is the one blamed for everything, and knows it.

I have such a hard time with the younger one. The older one does not visit at all. I know he needs meds for his ADHD but he takes 3 pills a day and seems to me to only get his hyperactivity under control. I get frustrated, impatient, aggravated, and plain stressed with him as it is when he is here for 3 days so living with us scares me to death! The things he does not know are the things I demanded my kids knew. How in the word do I switch my believes and parenting ?

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69 Perfect Couple’s Costumes For Halloween Parties And Instagram Posts


69 Perfect Couple’s Costumes For Halloween Parties And Instagram Posts

69 Perfect Couple’s Costumes For Halloween Parties And Instagram Posts
— Read on thoughtcatalog.com/holly-riordan/2019/09/69-perfect-couples-costumes-for-halloween-parties-and-instagram-posts/

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My son is becoming a man


At 21, he has a vehicle, apartment, and is working at a hospital making 26. an hour as a technician, plus another part time job. He has gone off to college and lived in the dorms but this is actually moving out! Totally different! I cried like a baby! Lol

I made him some, Open When , cards. I printed some envelopes and glued them together and then put my notes inside. I labeled them, Open When~ you finish unpacking, after your first day at work, when you had a hard day, etc, etc.

you are only limited by your imagination and things to say! If you go to Pinterest you can find some printable stuff to help out!

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